MOTHER’S DAY
Have you ever
wondered when Mother’s Day began in the
President Woodrow Wilson signed a joint resolution in
Congress on
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A mother is one
who will nourish, love, and care for her children.
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A mother is a
night watchman as she keeps a ear out for her children’s cry at night, and she
will immediately spring out of bed to comfort them.
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A mother is a
doctor and a nurse all rolled into one. No matter what kind of pain a child has,
it is only a mother’s kiss that can make them feel better.
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A mother is one
who can change a stinky diaper with a smile on her face.
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A mother is a time
keeper as she keeps up with all the events in her children’s life, and she makes
sure they make it to them on time.
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A mother doubles
as taxi driver or chauffer; whatever it takes to get her children where they
need to go.
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She is a chef,
and she makes meals that are best for her children.
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A mother is a
councilor and works with her children’s emotions during difficult times.
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A mother is a
referee when it comes to disputes between her children.
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A mother is a
great comforter when her child wakes up from a bad dream or bad weather.
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A mother is great
encourager who gives her children what they need to succeed.
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Even though a
mother is overworked and underpaid, she doesn't complain.
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She would work
her fingers to the bone for her children.
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She is willing to
come to their rescue, no matter what the cause.
All of these wonderful qualities are a
mother’s God-given talents that she can use for the glory of God. God expects a
mother to raise and nurture her children to become the best they can be in this
world and to prepare them to love God as much as she does. It is not easy being
a mother, but when it is done right, it has it rewards. So, all faithful
Christians mothers should be honored.
In fact, the Bible teaches us that we should
honor our mothers. For instance, under the Law of Moses notice what the 5th
commandment says:
Exodus 20:12 " Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the LORD your God is giving you.
We also find this commanded in the NT as well:
Ephesians 6:1Children,
obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 "Honor your father and
mother," which is the first commandment with promise: 3 "that it may be well with
you and you may live long on the earth."
Long before Woodrow Wilson suggested that we honor our mothers, the Word of God has commanded us to respect and honor them. For the rest of my lesson, I want to take a look as some of the mothers of the Bible, and look at some their characteristics.
God had made a promise to Abraham that his descendents would be more numerous than the stars, and no doubt Sarah was aware of this, but a lot of time had went by and she was unable to conceive. Apparently she thought she was never going to conceive, but she was not going to let her infertility stop her from providing Abraham with children as we read in:
Genesis 16:1 Now
Sarai, Abram's wife, had borne him no children. And she had an Egyptian
maidservant whose name was Hagar. 2
So Sarai said to Abram, "See now, the LORD has restrained me from bearing children.
Please, go in to my maid; perhaps I shall obtain children by her." And
Abram heeded the voice of Sarai. 3
Then Sarai, Abram's wife, took Hagar her maid, the Egyptian, and gave her to
her husband Abram to be his wife, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the
We learn that Sarah decided to take matters into her own hands and she gives her maid servant to Abraham and she was able to bear him a son. Some might say, oh that’s wonderful she accomplished her goal. However, this was not in God’s plan. Sarah took matters into her own hands and tried to take them out of God’s hands.
A lot of people are like Sarah. When we don’t get the results we want from God in a timely manner, what do we do? We take matters into our own hands just like Sarah did and most the time when we do this, the result does not come out like we want them to. That’s what happened to Sarah when Hagar bore a child for Abraham. Apparently, Hagar was dishonoring Sarah because she could not conceive. Perhaps she was making mean comments such as, “don’t you wish you could produce a child like me.” Because of this, Sarah dealt with her maid harshly, and Sarah was very unhappy about this whole mess. I’m sure Sarah wished that she had never taken matters into her own hands. She should have waited on the lord and trusted in Him, but she did not. Most of us can relate to Sarah because most of us have been impatient and we have taken matters into our own hands. Many times when we do this, we end up regretting what we did because we didn’t trust in God.
Now after Sarah was way past the age for a woman to conceive a child, God lets Abraham know that Sarah was going to have a child. Notice Abraham’s response:
Genesis 17: 17
Then Abraham fell on his face and laughed, and said in his heart, "Shall a
child be born to a man who is one hundred years old? And shall Sarah, who
is ninety years old, bear a child?"
18 And Abraham said to God, "Oh, that Ishmael might live
before You!" 19 Then God
said: "No, Sarah your wife shall bear you a son, and you shall call his
name Isaac; I will establish My covenant with him for an everlasting covenant, and
with his descendants after him. 20
"And as for Ishmael, I have heard you. Behold, I have blessed him, and
will make him fruitful, and will multiply him exceedingly. He shall beget
twelve princes, and I will make him a great nation. 21 "But My covenant I will
establish with Isaac, whom Sarah shall bear to you at this set time next
year."
Even Abraham was amazed at what the Lord was telling him. This just go to show you that with God all things are possible. So, a great lesson we can learn from Sarah is to not take matters into our own hands, but to be patient and put our trust in God’s timing.
A great example of this comes from our second mother, Hannah.
This story is found in 1 Samuel. We learn from 1 Sam. 1:1-7 that a man by the name of Elkanah (L- ka- naw) had 2 wives named Peninnah (pen- in – naw) and Hannah. Peninnah was able to have children but Hannah could not. Once a year when they would go to worship God and make sacrifices, Elkanah would make an offering and give a portion to Peninnah and her children, but he would give a double portion to Hannah because he loved her so much even though she had not bore him any children. This was very troublesome to Hannah because all she wanted to do was to be a mother, and it certainly didn’t help matters when Peninnah would give her a hard time about not having any children yet.
1 Samuel 1:8 Then
Elkanah her husband said to her, "Hannah, why do you weep? Why do you not
eat? And why is your heart grieved? Am I not better to you than ten
sons?" 9 So Hannah arose
after they had finished eating and drinking in
As you can see, Hannah was getting very depressed and she prayed to God from her heart with eyes full of tears. She poured her soul out to the Lord and asked him to allow her conceive a son. If He would make this happen she promised she would give him to the lord all the days of his life. She put her trust in the Lord, and the lord heard her prayer and answered it and she bore a son. She even named him with an appropriate name because Samuel means “Asked him of the Lord.” Now she stayed at home with Samuel until he was weaned, then she took him to Eli the priest so he could serve the Lord forever just as she had promised.
1 Samuel 1:24 Now
when she had weaned him, she took him up with her, with three bulls, one ephah
of flour, and a skin of wine, and brought him to the house of the LORD in
Shiloh. And the child was young. 25
Then they slaughtered a bull, and brought the child to Eli. 26 And she said, "O my lord!
As your soul lives, my lord, I am the woman who stood by you here,
praying to the LORD. 27
"For this child I prayed, and the LORD has granted me my petition which I
asked of Him. 28
"Therefore I also have lent him to the LORD; as long as he lives he shall
be lent to the LORD." So they worshiped the LORD there.
Not only did Hannah do the right thing by trusting in God and his timing. She also kept her promise she made to the Lord about giving her son over to Him. Since Hannah was so faithful and a wonderful mother, we learn that God blessed her with even more children.
1 Samuel
We learn from Hannah how
important it is for us to keep our promises especially the promises that we
make to the Lord. She has also given us a great example of how God can bless
our lives if we will simply trust in Him.
Our next mother is Jochebed (jock – a – bed), Moses’ mother. She is good example of what a mother is willing to do to save her child.
Exodus 2:1 And a
man of the house of Levi went and took as wife a daughter of Levi. 2 So the woman conceived and bore
a son. And when she saw that he was a beautiful child, she hid
him three months. 3 But when
she could no longer hide him, she took an ark of bulrushes for him, daubed it
with asphalt and pitch, put the child in it, and laid it in the reeds by
the river's bank. 4 And his
sister stood afar off, to know what would be done to him. 5 Then the daughter of Pharaoh
came down to bathe at the river. And her maidens walked along the riverside;
and when she saw the ark among the reeds, she sent her maid to get it. 6 And when she had opened it, she
saw the child, and behold, the baby wept. So she had compassion on him, and
said, "This is one of the Hebrews' children." 7 Then his sister said to
Pharaoh's daughter, "Shall I go and call a nurse for you from the Hebrew
women, that she may nurse the child for you?" 8 And Pharaoh's daughter said to
her, "Go." So the maiden went and called the child's mother. 9 Then Pharaoh's daughter said to
her, "Take this child away and nurse him for me, and I will give you your
wages." So the woman took the child and nursed him. 10 And the child grew, and she
brought him to Pharaoh's daughter, and he became her son. So she called his
name Moses, saying, "Because I drew him out of the water."
Moses mother loved him dearly, and she was not about to have
him thrown into the river because of the Pharaoh’s command. Now as we read the
story of what happened, it is easy to see that Jochebed was taking a big risk
is putting her son on the river and allowing the Pharaohs daughter to see him.
She could have easily ordered her servants to drown baby Moses. But when the
Pharaohs daughter saw the baby and heard it cry, her heart melted. I think this
would be a common response with just about any woman. There seems to be a natural
desire for most women to embrace a child that is crying, and that is what
Pharaohs daughter did. But, what I really like about this story is that
Jochebed had the opportunity to teach Moses about God, and about the children
of
All mothers and fathers alike can learn a great lesson from Jochebed. It’s very important that we teach our children about God early on. What we teach them now will stick with them for the rest of their lives, and it will influence how they live their life in the future. We must understand that as Christian parents and grandparents that our children and our grandchildren look at us for examples. So, there is a great need for us to live a righteous life.
In my lifetime I have met parents who always keep beer in their refrigerator, and they will tell their children drinking is bad for them and that they should never drink beer, yet mom and dad get to drink all the time. What kind of message does that send to your children? I can tell most of them will end up sneaking a drink so they can feel big like mom and dad, and chances are when they grow up and get out on their own, their refrigerator will be full of beer as well. If you don’t want your kids to drink, then you shouldn’t drink either. If you don’t want your kids to use bad language, then you don’t use bad language. If you’re going to teach someone to do something, you must set the example. This principle doesn’t just apply to parents and grandparents, it applies to all Christian in every situation.
For instance, if your friends and co-workers know that you are a faithful Christian and they catch you doing something that a Christians should not do, then you are going to lose the godly influence you had with those people because if you start telling them what they are doing is wrong then they are going to remind of what you did.
As I stated earlier, we need to start teaching our children at a very young age, but I want you to know that it doesn’t matter how old your children are, you should never give up on them. Take every opportunity you can to teach them more about God because you never know what influence you may still have on them. So never give up.
Our final mother we are going to look at this morning is
Naomi, and she is a great example of how much love a mother can have for her
daughter-in-law. Naomi was married and had 2 sons who were married to 2 women
of
The fact that these women were willing to leave their family
to stay with Naomi indicates how much love they had for Naomi and how much love
she must have showed them. She tried to persuade them to go back to their
family and leave her. One of them listened, but Ruth would not. Notice what
Ruth said to Naomi:
Ruth 1:16 But
Ruth said: "Entreat me not to leave you, Or to turn back from
following after you; For wherever you go, I will go; And wherever you lodge, I
will lodge; Your people shall be my people, And your God, my God. 17 Where you die, I will die, And
there will I be buried. The LORD do so to me, and more also, If anything but
death parts you and me."
This shows how much love and dedication she had for her
mother-in-law. When they arrived at
Sure enough, Naomi advice paid off, and Boaz and Ruth ended
up getting married and have a child named Obed who would become
This is another great example that shows how important a mother’s love is and how much influence they can have on their daughter-in-laws or son-in-laws as well.
Well, we have looked a several mothers this morning and their characteristics. We have learned how important mothers are and how they should be honored. We have also learned that we must be patient and trust in Lord’s timing and that there is great need for us to teach our children and our grandchildren about God. Finally, we learned how our love can be used to influence those around us so that they may also be encouraged to live their life for God. As we grow in our Christianity, I hope that we will all strive to live by these positive characteristics we have learned about today.