THE HEART OF A CHILD
Our key text this morning is:
Matthew 18:1 At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, "Who
then is greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" 2 Then Jesus called a little child
to Him, set him in the midst of them, 3 and said, "Assuredly,
I say to you, unless you are converted and become as little children, you will
by no means enter the kingdom of heaven.
4 "Therefore whoever humbles himself
as this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 5 "Whoever receives one
little child like this in My name receives Me. 6 " But whoever causes one of
these little ones who believe in Me to sin, it would be better for him if a
millstone were hung around his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the
sea.
One of the main messages
Jesus taught His disciple to teach to others was that kingdom was coming:
Matthew 10:5 These twelve
Jesus sent out and commanded them, saying: "Do not go into the way of the
Gentiles, and do not enter a city of the Samaritans. 6 "But go rather to the
lost sheep of the house of
We can all imagine some
of the thoughts that were going through their heads especial when we consider
they were thinking of a physical kingdom like the one under David. Since they
were Jesus’ chosen men, they kept arguing about who was going to be the
greatest in this new kingdom. We can see this in:
Mark 9:33 Then He
came to
A little bit later, James
and John took it a step further as we read in:
Mark 10:35 Then
James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to Him, saying, "Teacher, we
want You to do for us whatever we ask." 36 And He said to them, "What
do you want Me to do for you?" 37 They said to Him, "Grant
us that we may sit, one on Your right hand and the
other on Your left, in Your glory."
Every time His disciples
would start thinking this way, He would explain to them they have the wrong
attitude. For example, notice His response to James and John:
Mark 10:38 But
Jesus said to them, "You do not know what you ask. Are you able to drink
the cup that I drink, and be baptized with the baptism that I am baptized
with?" 39 They said to
Him, "We are able." So Jesus said to them, "You will indeed
drink the cup that I drink, and with the baptism I am baptized with you will be
baptized; 40 "but to sit
on My right hand and on My left is not Mine to give, but it is for those for
whom it is prepared." 41
And when the ten heard it, they began to be greatly displeased with
James and John. 42 But Jesus
called them to Himself and said to them, "You know that those who
are considered rulers over the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones
exercise authority over them. 43
"Yet it shall not be so among you; but whoever desires to become great
among you shall be your servant. 44
"And whoever of you desires to be first shall be slave of all. 45 "For even the Son of Man
did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for
many."
It seems to be in the
nature of man to want to feel important and to be in a position of power, but
as Jesus taught the apostles, if you want to be great in the
2 Then Jesus called a little child to
Him, set him in the midst of them, 3 and said,
"Assuredly, I say to you, unless you are converted and become as little
children, you will by no means enter the kingdom of heaven. 4
"Therefore whoever humbles himself as this little child is the greatest in
the kingdom of heaven.
When Jesus did this, it
no doubt struck to the heart of His apostles and made them feel foolish about
how they were acting because Jesus is telling them not have a pompous heart,
but have a humble heart like a young child. Most of us in here can relate to
Jesus’ illustration and understand exactly what He means because we know how
young children are. We know how humble and innocent they are and we are taught
that we must become like little children in order to enter the kingdom of
heaven.
Since we must become like
them, I think it is important for us to know what that means and what it does
not mean. First, Jesus is not saying that we should become immature and do
immature thing because that would go against the principle that we are to
become mature. As Paul said:
1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a
child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but
when I became a man, I put away childish things.
1 Corinthians 14:20 Brethren, do not be children
in understanding; however, in malice be babes, but in understanding be mature.
We are to be adults and continue to mature in the
Word of God by digging deeper each day. We cannot and must not stay in the kiddy
pool when it comes to learning God’s Word. As the writer of Hebrews said:
Hebrews 5:12 For though by this time you ought
to be teachers, you need someone to teach you again the first principles
of the oracles of God; and you have come to need milk and not solid food. 13 For everyone who partakes only
of milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, for he is a
babe. 14 But solid food
belongs to those who are of full age, that is, those who by reason of
use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.
We are certainly not to throw temper tantrums when
things do not go our way like Ahab did when Naboth would not sell or trade his
vineyard:
1 Kings 21:4 So Ahab went into his house sullen
and displeased because of the word which Naboth the Jezreelite had spoken to
him; for he had said, "I will not give you the inheritance of my
fathers." And he lay down on his bed, and turned away his face, and would
eat no food.
Jesus did not have any of these immature qualities
or those like them in mind when He said we must be like little children. So,
let’s take a look at some the qualities that He was talking about.
First, little children are innocent and pure. They
have not been corrupted by the world and they have not developed a desire for
sin. Every Christian must learn to reprogram themselves
to have the same kind of pure and innocent heart.
Romans 12:1 I beseech you therefore, brethren,
by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy,
acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. 2 And do not be conformed to this
world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what
is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
This is not something we can do overnight. In
fact, many times it takes a lifetime to undo the damage we have done to our
hearts by all the worldly things we have brought into them. Many of the things
we have learned from the world, and many of the shocking images we have seen in
movies, in real life, in print, or on our computers will be engrained in our minds
for a long time.
We must also understand that the words that we use
and hear all the time will affect us. When we are around people that cuss and
say vulgar things all the time, it no longer shocks us and our minds had a
tendency to apply certain meanings to certain phrases that have been corrupted
by the world. The more we immerse ourselves in things like these, the more
challenging it will be to re-program ourselves to where we actually become
shocked when we hear or see things that are not righteous or wholesome.
As I said, it will not be an easy process for us
to clean the junk out of our heads, but we can eventually do it, though I
personally believe that our hearts will be scared for life. In order to go
backward to having a pure and innocent heart, it begins by renewing our minds
in way of righteousness. As Paul said, we must bring:
2 Corinthians 10:5 … every
thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ,
One thing that will definitely help us in this process
is prayer. We should pray to God something similar to what David said in:
Psalm 51:6 Behold,
You desire truth in the inward parts, And in the
hidden part You will make me to know wisdom. 7 Purge me with hyssop, and I
shall be clean; Wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow. 8 Make me hear joy and gladness, That the bones You have broken may
rejoice. 9 Hide Your face from my sins, And blot out all my iniquities. 10 Create in me a clean heart, O
God, And renew a steadfast spirit within me.
We must also continual
reprogram our heart with the Word of God. The whole chapter of Psalm 119
declares the importance of putting God’s Word in our heart and I recommend you
read the whole chapter today, but for our time, we will just look at the
beginning of it:
Psalm 119:1 Blessed are the undefiled in the way, Who walk in the
law of the LORD! 2 Blessed are
those who keep His testimonies, Who seek Him with
the whole heart! 3 They also
do no iniquity; They walk in His ways. 4 You have commanded us To keep Your precepts diligently. 5 Oh, that my ways were directed To keep Your statutes!
6 Then I would not be ashamed, When
I look into all Your commandments. 7
I will praise You with uprightness of heart, When I
learn Your righteous judgments. 8
I will keep Your statutes; Oh, do not forsake me
utterly! 9 How can a young
man cleanse his way? By taking heed according to Your
word. 10 With my whole heart
I have sought You; Oh, let me not wander from Your
commandments! 11 Your word I
have hidden in my heart, That I might not sin against
You!
As we use prayer and
God’s Word to reprogram our minds to help us reclaim our innocence and clean
our hearts out, we must also stay away from those images and words that caused
us to become corrupt in the first place. It is already a hard enough battle as
it is without having the corruption still in place. It would be like an
alcoholic who is trying to quite but still keeps his refrigerator stocked with
beer. We need to train ourselves to have the attitude of David:
Psalm 101:3 I will
set nothing wicked before my eyes; I hate the work of those who fall away; It shall not cling to me.
4 A perverse heart shall depart from me; I will not know
wickedness.
The second quality a
young child is that they are full of love. There is nothing quite like a young child who can come up and hug you and kiss you and
completely change your mood. Having the kind of love that a child has for
others is the kind of love that we are to have for others.
John 13:34 "A
new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you,
that you also love one another. 35
"By this all will know that you are My disciples,
if you have love for one another."
1 Peter 1:22 Since you have purified your souls in obeying the truth
through the Spirit in sincere love of the brethren, love one another fervently
with a pure heart,
It is not easy to love as
a child does with pure motives, but that is what we must work toward. Love is
the foundation of Christianity. If we cannot learn to love others and love God
then no matter what we do, it will be empty. As Paul said:
1 Corinthians
13:1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I
have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. 2 And though I have the gift of
prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have
all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am
nothing. 3 And though I
bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be
burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.
Loving others is easy for
some, but for others it can be really challenging. The way we learn to have
this kind of love is through prayer and by learning about love from God.
1 John 4:19 We love Him because He first loved us.
1 Thessalonians 4:9 But
concerning brotherly love you have no need that I should write to you, for you
yourselves are taught by God to love one another; 10 and indeed you do so
toward all the brethren who are in all Macedonia. But we urge you, brethren,
that you increase more and more;
God shows us what love is and what love means. His example can help us to learn
what it means to love as a young child does.
Romans 5:6 For when we were still without strength, in due time Christ
died for the ungodly. 7 For
scarcely for a righteous man will one die; yet perhaps for a good man someone
would even dare to die. 8 But
God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners,
Christ died for us.
A third quality of a
young child is they understand they are dependant on their parents and this
causes them to have a deep trust in them. This is certainly a quality that we
must learn as Christians because with out God we are nothing. We must learn to
trust that He will always be there for us.
Unfortunately, we become
to full of ourselves sometimes and we think we can do things all by ourselves
without the help of God, but we learn from Scripture that is a mistake.
Jeremiah 10:23 O LORD,
I know the way of man is not in himself; It is not in man who
walks to direct his own steps.
What happens most of the
time when a young child tries to do something on their own that they are not
yet ready to do on their own? They usually get hurt. The same thing happens to
us when we try and leave God out of our lives and take on situations without
Him. It does not make us little and it does not make weak because of our
dependence on God. Instead of viewing our dependence on God as something bad,
we should be comforted by it just as a young child is comforted by a big hand
that is helps hold him up so he reach something that he could not reach on his
own.
Most young children also
show a great trust in their parents. For example, they will launch themselves
through the air knowing that their father or mother will catch them. We must
have that same trust in God, knowing that He will never drop us or look away.
He love and cares for us continual. As Paul said:
Romans 8:38 For I
am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor
powers, nor things present nor things to come,
39 nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall
be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our
Lord.
Just as a young child
does not always understand why their parents do things certain ways, we will
not always understand why our heavenly Father does certain things, but we must
understand that our Farther in heaven always has our best interest at heart and
will do things according to His will and not our own. We must trust that He
will make things work out for the best:
Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to those
who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.
A forth quality a young
child has is that they believe what their parents tell them and they are very
obedient. Yes, sometimes they do not obey, and hopefully a parent corrects them
when they do, but for the most par, they do what they are told. Kids have no
reason not to believe their parents, and we have no reason not to believe our
Father in heaven. He has proved to us over and over again that His Word is
truth.
When a parent tell their
child not to touch the burner on the stove just after it has been turned off,
they usually obey that instruction. If they do not, they get burned and they
will never touch again. In a similar way, we can know that when God tells us
not to do something or else we sin, then we should not do it. If we do, we sin
and hopefully we will learn from that mistake and not repeat it because, if we
continue in sin we will get much worse than a temporary burn. So, we must
continue to grow in the knowledge and grace of our Lord by continuing to
believe in God and what His Word says. If we do mess up, let us learn from our
mistakes and not repeat them.
A fifth quality a young
child has is forgiveness. It is amazing to watch a child get into a fight with
his sister or brother and be ready to kill them, but then 5 or 10 min later, he
is talking nice with his sister or brother and will play another game with him
or her. It is hard for a young child to hold a grudge.
We certainly need to
develop that quality as a Christian. We must always have a forgiving spirit and
not hold grudges against people: As Jesus said:
Luke 17:3
"Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him;
and if he repents, forgive him. 4
"And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day
returns to you, saying, 'I repent,' you shall forgive him."
Matthew 6:14
"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also
forgive you. 15 "But if
you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your
trespasses.
We are far better off
when we can train ourselves not to hold grudges because those grudges will just
weigh us down. Just as Jesus said, when a person comes to us and repents we
must learn to forgive them and allow the healing to take place.
While there are many
other qualities of young children we could look at, I want to mention one more
and that is their humility. They understand that they are small and need help.
How many times do we hear young children ask us for help, and when they look at
us they think we are strongest parents in the world? They do not have a self-inflated
image of themselves. If there is one quality that we all must learn to have it
is humility. After all, James said:
James 4:6 …Therefore He says: "God resists
the proud, But gives grace to the humble."
Without humility, we
cannot receive the grace of God. We cannot be like Jesus’ disciples were in the
beginning when they were arguing who would be the greatest, and we cannot allow
our pride to get the better of us. As:
Proverbs 29:23 A man's
pride will bring him low, But the humble in spirit will retain honor.
As Paul said:
Romans 12:3 For I say, through the grace given
to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly
than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a
measure of faith.
Like a child, let us
never forget how small we are and how big our heavenly Father is. Let’s us
never forget how awesome our God is our how we would not exist without Him.
When we put things in perspective, it will help us to become as humble as a
child.
In conclusion, we have
seen that we must become like a child if we want to make into heaven. Some of
the qualities we must learn to be like children are as follows: