A Christian’s approach to life situations part 19
Old Age
If we live long enough we will all reach a ripe old age, so it’s important that we learn what Bible says about old age and how we should view it as Christians. Let’s begin in,
Ecclesiastes 3:1 To
everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under
heaven: 2 A time to be born,
And a time to die; A time to plant, And a time to pluck what is planted; 3 A time to kill, And a time to
heal; A time to break down, And a time to build up; 4 A time to weep, And a time to
laugh; A time to mourn, And a time to dance;
5 A time to cast away stones, And a time to gather stones; A
time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing; 6 A time to gain, And a time to
lose; A time to keep, And a time to throw away;
7 A time to tear, And a time to sew; A time to keep silence,
And a time to speak; 8 A time
to love, And a time to hate; A time of war, And a time of peace.
Solomon gives us a
general list of things that most of us will experience in our lifetime. From
the time we are born to the time we die, there will be ups and downs during
that time. As we age and go through the seasons of life, our way of thinking
changes as well. For instance, in our early childhood, we are learning about
life and experiencing new things and we think that mom & dad just about
know it all. Then when we become teenagers our bodies start changing into adult
bodies and many times we think we are invincible and that we know it all. We no
longer think mom & dad are smart, we think there dumb and we don’t listen
to them like we used to. Then, when we become young adults and start raising
kids of our own, we began to realize that mom & dad may not know
everything, but they know a lot more than we do and once again most of us will
begin to ask them advice on how to deal with their kids and other situations
that happen in life. Then as we grow older, we began to obtain wisdom from the
experiences that we have had in our life. As we get older we slow down and our
bodies began to wear out, but we have a great understanding of what is
important in life. We know that its not material things, but it is God and our
families.
However, sometimes older
people might start thinking the God doesn’t care for them anymore because they
are so old. Two different times, David pleaded with God not to forsake Him in
His old age in Psalm 71. But there was no need for him or any old Christian to
think that God would ever forsake them because He will not. God assured the
Jews of the OT of this in,
Isaiah 46:3 "
Listen to Me, O house of Jacob, And all the remnant of the house of Israel, Who
have been upheld by Me from birth, Who have been carried from the
womb: 4 Even to your old
age, I am He, And even to gray hairs I will carry you! I
have made, and I will bear; Even I will carry, and will deliver you.
He has also assured all
Christians of this as well in,
Hebrews 13:5 "I will never leave you nor forsake
you."
The Bible speaks highly
of the old,
Proverbs 20:29 The
glory of young men is their strength, And the splendor of old men is their
gray head.
Proverbs 16:31 The
silver-haired head is a crown of glory, If it is found in the way
of righteousness.
When we are young, we
have our physical strength and lots of energy, but when we get older and become
weaker, our hair turns gray, but it is not the end of the world. Our gray hair
is the beauty of old age and we should consider it as a crown of glory if we
have been living faithfully to God. We should rejoice in our old age realizing
the wisdom that we now have and knowing that we can use that wisdom to help
others grow closer to God.
When we get older and
retire from our jobs, sometimes we like to retire from working for God. We
convince ourselves that we have labored long enough and now it is time for the
younger people to do the work, but this should not be the attitude that we
have. When we retire from our jobs, we have more time on our hands that we
could use serve God.
Even though we may be
slowing down physically, we need to realize that our spirit should be stronger
than ever as Paul says in,
2 Corinthians 4:16
Therefore we do not lose heart. Even though our outward man is perishing, yet
the inward man is being renewed day by day. 17 For our light affliction, which
is but for a moment, is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal
weight of glory, 18 while we
do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen.
For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are
not seen are eternal.
Paul is teaching us that
it doesn’t matter what the condition of your physical body is because your
spirit, or your inward man, is being renewed or strengthened day by day. So,
those aches and pains that we experience as we grow older should not hold us
back from serving God because we should know that our journey in this life is
almost over and the pains of this life are only temporary and they don’t
compare to the eternal weight of glory that we will experience in heaven for
eternity. So, this teaches us that there is no room for retirement for a
Christian
Psalm 92:13 Those
who are planted in the house of the LORD Shall flourish in the courts of our
God. 14 They shall still bear
fruit in old age; They shall be fresh and flourishing, 15 To declare that the LORD is
upright;.
These verse show without
a doubt that when you are planted in the house of the Lord, which every
faithful Christian is, it doesn’t matter if you are young or old you are to
flourish and bear fruit for the Lord.
God is able to use all His people, no matter what their age.
With this thought in mind,
let’s take a quick look at some examples of how older people served the Lord. Our
first example comes from Moses.
Moses teaches us in Psalm
90:10 that the normal life span during his time was 70 to 80 years old. Yet,
how old was Moses and his brother Aaron when God called them to serve by taking
on the Pharaoh of Egypt?
Exodus 7:7 And Moses was eighty years old and
Aaron eighty-three years old when they spoke to Pharaoh.
By all rights Moses and
Aaron were very old and most did not make it to their age, yet they are now
serving God in one of the greatest events in the OT and Moses and Aaron
continued you to serve God as leaders of the people for another 40 years.
Our next example comes
from Joshua and Caleb. If will remember these were the only 2 men that were
allowed to enter into the promise land that was over 20 years old from the
beginning of the exodus because they were they were only two spies that did not
doubt God’s ability to help them conquer the promise land. 38 years after that
day, Joshua becomes the new leader of the children of
Also Caleb was involved
in this conquest as well. Notice what he tells Joshua in,
Joshua 14:7 "I
was forty years old when Moses the servant of the LORD sent me from
Kadesh Barnea to spy out the land, and I brought back word to him as it was in
my heart. 8
"Nevertheless my brethren who went up with me made the heart of the people
melt, but I wholly followed the LORD my God.
9 "So Moses swore on that day, saying, 'Surely the land
where your foot has trodden shall be your inheritance and your children's
forever, because you have wholly followed the LORD my God.' 10 "And now, behold, the LORD
has kept me alive, as He said, these forty-five years, ever since the LORD
spoke this word to Moses while Israel wandered in the wilderness; and now, here
I am this day, eighty-five years old. 11
"As yet I am as strong this day as on the day that Moses sent me;
just as my strength was then, so now is my strength for war, both
for going out and for coming in.
Even though Caleb was
old, he still felt strong because he knew he was serving God. Lets take a look
a few NT examples.
Luke 1:5 There
was in the days of Herod, the king of Judea, a certain priest named Zacharias,
of the division of Abijah. His wife was of the daughters of Aaron, and
her name was
These two were old, yet
we find Zacharias is still serving as priest in God’s temple and
Luke 2:36 Now
there was one, Anna, a prophetess, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of
Asher. She was of a great age, and had lived with a husband seven years from
her virginity; 37 and this
woman was a widow of about eighty-four years, who did not depart from
the temple, but served God with fastings and prayers night and day.
This elderly lady was 84
years old and she was still serving God day and night at the temple. Finally,
we have the example of the apostle Paul who referred to himself as the aged one
in Phm. 1:9. In his older age he still went around encouraging the congregations
he had started and he took the time to write letters of encouragement when he
was in and out of prison. He was the hardest working apostles and He didn’t let
his age keep him from serving God.
We learn from all these
examples that old age is not the time that we stop serving the Lord, it’s the
time that we dig in deep and endure.
Hebrews 6:10 For God
is not unjust to forget your work and labor of love which you have shown
toward His name, in that you have ministered to the saints, and do
minister. 11 And we desire
that each one of you show the same diligence to the full assurance of hope
until the end,
Paul describes a
Christian life as race on several occasions. In the beginning of a race, you
are at your strongest physically and you are ready to go, but as the race
continues it become more difficult and you starting getting tired. Those last
few laps of the race are hardest and it takes a determined spirit to finish the
race. That is exactly what we must do in our Christians lives. Just because
were getting old, doesn’t mean that we quite the race. No, we must finish the
race. We must have the attitude of the apostle Paul,
Philippians 3:12 Not
that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I
may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me. 13 Brethren, I do not count myself
to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which
are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, 14 I press toward the goal for the
prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. 15 Therefore let us, as many as
are mature, have this mind; and if in anything you think otherwise, God will
reveal even this to you.
So even in your old age
there is much work to be done for the Lord. For instance, a great work that is
always needed in the church is an elder. I have known men that were in their
80’s that were still effectively serving the Lord as an elder. Older men who
have been faithful Christians for a long time, are going to know how to lead
and deal with problems that arise in the church.
Another great work that
older people can do is found in,
Titus 2:1But as
for you, speak the things which are proper for sound doctrine: 2 that the older men be sober,
reverent, temperate, sound in faith, in love, in patience; 3 the older women likewise, that
they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers
of good things -- 4 that they
admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 to be discreet, chaste,
homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not
be blasphemed. 6 Likewise
exhort the young men to be sober-minded,
7 in all things showing yourself to be a pattern of
good works; in doctrine showing integrity, reverence,
incorruptibility, 8 sound
speech that cannot be condemned, that one who is an opponent may be ashamed,
having nothing evil to say of you.
This is one area that I
think every congregation needs to improve in. The older ladies have gathered a
lot of wisdom over the years on how to deal with children, husbands and life in
general. They know what works and what doesn’t. They have so much wisdom they
could share with the younger ladies, so they don’t have to make some the same
mistakes they did.
In similar way the older
men can pass on their wisdom to the younger men. They can encourage them to
become future leaders in the church and how they should conduct themselves as
servants of God.
In order for this to
work, the younger people must learn to respect the wisdom of those that are
older than them.
Proverbs 19:20 Listen
to counsel and receive instruction, That you may be wise in your latter days.
Proverbs 12:1 Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, But
he who hates correction is stupid.
Sometimes younger people
will think that they have everything figured out and they don’t think that the
older person knows what they are talking about. So, instead of listening to
their wisdom they do things their way and many times they find out in the end
that they should have listened to their elders. A great example of this comes
from King Solomon’s son Rehoboam.
1 Kings 12:3 Then
Jeroboam and the whole assembly of
At this point in history
the Jews were all one nation, but they were not happy with the way things were
and they want Rehoboam to change things so things will be easier on them. Now,
at first he does the right thing, he asked the elders, that is these older men
who had served under his father. They gave him some good advice on how to
appease these people, but watch what he does with the great advice as we
continue on,
1 Kings 12:8 But he rejected the advice which the elders
had given him, and consulted the young men who had grown up with him, who stood
before him. 9 And he said to
them, "What advice do you give? How should we answer this people who have
spoken to me, saying, 'Lighten the yoke which your father put on
us'?" 10 Then the young
men who had grown up with him spoke to him, saying, "Thus you should speak
to this people who have spoken to you, saying, 'Your father made our yoke
heavy, but you make it lighter on us' -- thus you shall say to them: 'My
little finger shall be thicker than my father's waist! 11 'And now, whereas my father put
a heavy yoke on you, I will add to your yoke; my father chastised you with
whips, but I will chastise you with scourges!' "
Rehoboam decided to
reject the wisdom of his elders and then embrace the advice of those that were
young like him. Now it was God’s providence that this happened this way, but
you can clearly see that if he had taken his elders advice it would have
appeased the people, but since he rejected their wisdom and spoke harshly to
the people, it led to the great division where 10 of the tribes of Israel left
and made the northern kingdom of Israel. So, let us never forget to learn from
the wisdom of those that are older than us.
Of course there are many
other ways that older people can serve the Lord and others as well besides
sharing their wisdom. They can send people cards when they are sick or have a
birthday. They can pick up the phone and encourage other Christians with their
words. They can go and visit the sick if they are able. They can spend a lot
time praying for others. The list could go on and on, but the whole point is
that we need to do what we can for the Lord and realize that our labor will not
be in vain.
When we dig in and keep
busy for the Lord, then we can all say what Paul did at the end of his life.
2 Timothy 4:7 I have
fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. 8 Finally, there is laid up for me
the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to
me on that Day, and not to me only but also to all who have loved His
appearing.
So, keep pressing on and
don’t ever give up on serving the Lord. I want close this lesson with a poem,
“I’m Not
Growing Old”
They say that I am growing old.
I’ve heard them say it times untold
In language plain and bold.
But I’m not growing old;
This frail old shell in which I dwell
Is growing old I know full well,
But I’m not growing old.
What if my hair has turned gray?
Gray hair is honorable, they say.
What if my eyesight’s growing dim?
I can still see to follow Him
Who sacrificed His life for me
There
on the cross of
Why should I care if time’s old plow
Has dug some furrows in my brow?
Another house, not made with hand,
Awaits me in the glory land.
My hearing may not be as keen
As in the past, it may have been;
Still, I can hear my Savior say
Come faltering child, this is the way.
The outward man, do what I can
To lengthen out this life’s short span,
Shall perish and return to dust
As everything in nature must.
But the inward man the Scriptures say,
Ah, the inward man
Is growing stronger every day.
Then how can I be growing old?
I’m safe within the Savior’s fold.
‘Er long my soul shall fly away
And leave this tenement of clay.
This robe of flesh I’ll drop and rise
To seize the everlasting prize.
I’ll meet you on the streets of gold
And prove that I’m not growing old.
— John E. Roberts