A Christian’s approach to life situations part 14
Death
This is one topic that affects every single person because eventual all of us will die. No matter how hard we try to live forever no one will escape its grip.
Ecclesiastes 8:8 No one has power over the spirit to retain
the spirit, And no one has power in the day of death.
When we die our spirit
leaves our body (James 2:26) and goes back to God because He is the Father of
Spirits (Heb. 12:9) and our physical bodies will eventually turn back to dust
as,
Ecclesiastes 12:7 Then the
dust will return to the earth as it was, And the spirit will return to God who
gave it.
Based on the story of the
rich man and Lazarus in Luke 16 we can know that God sends the righteous spirit
to
You and I are in control
of what our destination will be because God has given as free will to choose to
be a righteous servant of God or to be a servant of the devil and the evil way.
Our lesson this morning will primarily focus on how a Christian should view
death and what we can do to prepare for it.
Death scares some people
and they don’t even like thinking about it, but like I said we must all deal
with it, so there is no need to avoid the reality of death. Our time here on
this earth is very short and we must learn to use what time we have to do the best
of our ability. In fact, the Bible says a lot about how short our lives really
are. For instance:
1 Chron. 29:15 compares
our lives to a shadow that only last for a short while.
Job 7:6-7 compares our
lives to a weaver’s shuttle, which quickly runs out and to the wind, which is
there for a short while and then it disappears.
Job 14:1
"Man who is born of woman Is of few days and full of trouble. 2 He comes forth like a flower and
fades away;
Ps. 90:9 compares our life to sigh
And James 4:14 says our
life is, but a vapor that is here today and gone tomorrow.
Knowing that our time
here is short, it should motivate us to prepare ourselves for death because
there are second chances as,
Hebrews 9:27 And as it is appointed for men to die once,
but after this the judgment,
This is why it is
important for Christians to redeem the time they have left on this earth to
serve God with all their might. If we are striving to serve God, as Christians
we should not fear death because there are many blessing that come from it. In
fact, the Hebrew writer teaches us that we should not fear death because Jesus
will deliver us from it.
Hebrews 2:14
Inasmuch then as the children have partaken of flesh and blood, He Himself
likewise shared in the same, that through death He might destroy him who had
the power of death, that is, the devil, 15
and release those who through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to
bondage.
On the Day of Judgment,
Jesus will destroy death according to 1 Cor. 15:26 and then we will be able to
say what Paul states in,
1 Corinthians 15:55 "O
Death, where is your sting? O Hades, where is your victory?"
In fact the Bible makes
death out to be something positive for all the righteous.
Ecclesiastes 7:1 A good
name is better than precious ointment, And the day of death than the day
of one's birth;
Why do you suppose this
writer says that a person death is better than a person birth? Well, Paul might
answer this question this way.
Philippians 1:21 For to
me, to live is Christ, and to die is gain. 22 But if I live on in the
flesh, this will mean fruit from my labor; yet what I shall
choose I cannot tell. 23 For
I am hard pressed between the two, having a desire to depart and be with
Christ, which is far better. 24
Nevertheless to remain in the flesh is more needful for you.
Paul understood that
while he remained on earth, he could be helpful in encouraging the brethren to
remain faithful and he would have more opportunities to share the good news
about Jesus. However, he struggled with this because he looked forward to death
because he knew that when he died, his struggles on earth would be over and he
would be in the presence of the Lord, which is far better. So we should not
fear death as Christians. Instead, we can look forward to it and all the
blessing that come with it.
So lets take a look at
the many blessings that a faithful Christian can look forward to at death. As
we look at the different blessing from the Bible it should bring great comfort
to us and encourage us to live faithfully toward God.
Psalm 116:15 Precious in the sight of the LORD Is the
death of His saints.
Sometimes it might make you sad when see some sinful famous person die early because they overdosed on drugs and then you see how much the world praises them and their sinful ways. However, when a faithful Christian dies who has touched the lives of many and has led many to Christ, the world is silent and the only one who sings them praises are a few other Christians. This just shows the difference between the world and those who serve God. When we read passages like the one I just read, it shouldn’t make us sad that the world doesn’t sing praises about the faithful Christian who passes from this earth because we can rejoice knowing that faithful Christians are precious in the sight of the Lord. This verse should also comfort us as we consider our own death we will have to face one day.
Isaiah 57:1 The
righteous perishes, And no man takes it to heart; Merciful men are taken
away, While no one considers That the righteous is taken away from evil. 2 He shall enter into peace; They
shall rest in their beds, Each one walking in his uprightness.
Isaiah is teaching us that
when the righteous die, they are taken away from thisevil world that we live
in. No longer will we have to fight against the devil or the temptation of this
world. We won’t have anything to worry about because we will enter into peace.
When we die and our
spirit leaves our body it will be carried to paradise by angles just as Lazarus
spirit was.
Luke 16:19 "
There was a certain rich man who was clothed in purple and fine linen and fared
sumptuously every day. 20
"But there was a certain beggar named Lazarus, full of sores, who was laid
at his gate, 21
"desiring to be fed with the crumbs which fell from the rich man's table.
Moreover the dogs came and licked his sores.
22 "So it was that the beggar died, and was carried by
the angels to Abraham's bosom. The rich man also died and was buried. 23 "And being in torments in
Hades, he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his
bosom. 24 "Then he cried
and said, 'Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus that he may dip
the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this
flame.' 25 "But Abraham
said, 'Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, and
likewise Lazarus evil things; but now he is comforted and you are
tormented. 26 'And besides
all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed, so that those who
want to pass from here to you cannot, nor can those from there pass to
us.'
This story also confirms
what will happen to those who are not faithful to the Lord and how they should
fear death because their death will be the beginning of eternal torment.
However, our main focus is the blessing that faithful Christians will receive
and we can see that our spirit will be taken to paradise where Abraham is and
we will be in comfort and this also shows that we will be aware of surroundings
because while our physical bodies die, our spirit lives on. We will be able to
enjoy the company of those who were righteous and have passed on. Also as we
read earlier, Paul says we are in the presence of the Lord, which is far better
than living on the earth.
Revelation 14:13 Then I
heard a voice from heaven saying to me, "Write: 'Blessed are the
dead who die in the Lord from now on.' " "Yes," says the Spirit,
"that they may rest from their labors, and their works follow them."
So, when we die, we get to
rest from our labors as we enter into an eternal rest. As you can see, we have
a lot to look forward to when we die as faithful Christians and so we should
not fear death, but look forward to it and we should be confident that we will
gain all these blessing when we die. Paul was certainly confident of this at
the end of his life.
2 Timothy 4:6 For I
am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure
is at hand. 7 I have fought
the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. 8 Finally, there is laid up for me
the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to
me on that Day, and not to me only but also to all who have loved His
appearing.
Paul has already told us that he was looking forward to being with the Lord and here is showing his confidence that he had lived a faithful life to God even though he had sinned from time to time. Now we won’t receive the crown of righteousness until the day of Judgment when Jesus comes back again and raises the just and unjust (John 5:28-29). At that time, Jesus will raise our physical bodies and transform them into spiritual bodies that will last for eternity and our spirit will be reunited with that new body. This is seen in 1 Cor. 15. But, until that day happens, the Christian’s spirit will remain in paradise.
Everything I have shown you so far should make you look forward to death since there are so many wonderful things to look forward to. However, in order to have the right attitude toward death, we must be prepared for it because heaven is a place for a prepared people.
The first thing we must do to prepare for the blessing of death is to become a Christian.
Romans 8:1 There
is therefore now no condemnation to those who are
in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to
the Spirit.
Ephesians 1:3 Blessed be the God and Father of our
Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the
heavenly places in Christ,
Ephesians 1:7 In Him we have redemption through His
blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace
These 3 verses make it
easy for us to see that we must be in Christ Jesus to have the forgiveness of
our sins and every spiritual blessing, which would include the blessing we will
receive when we die in Lord (Rev. 14:13). Also we must be in Christ in order to
avoid condemnation to hell. So how do we become a Christian, and make it into Christ?
In order to answer this
question, we must use the whole of council of God and not just one or two
verses. We must also have an honest heart and believe what the Bible says about
becoming saved instead of allowing what mom, dad or anyone else says about this
topic because God’s Word is our authority. Now these verses I am going to share
with you are just the basic principles of how a person becomes a Christian so
they can start becoming prepared for the blessing of death.
Romans 10:17 So then
faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.
Obviously, a person must
hear the Word of God first because without it they cannot know about God or
what it takes to become a Christians. The Word of God is power of God to
salvation Rom. 1:16 and it will save your soul James 1:21. You must decide for
yourself to believe what you hear which brings us to our next step.
John 8:24 "Therefore I said to you that you will
die in your sins; for if you do not believe that I am He, you will die
in your sins."
In order for a person to
become a Christians they must believe in Jesus. If they don’t believe in Jesus
or what the Bible says about Him, then they have no reason to follow after Him.
If you don’t believe, you will die in your sins. Belief alone is not enough
because even the demons believe in Jesus (James 2:19). James makes it clear,
James 2:17 …faith by itself, if it does not have works,
is dead.
James 2:24 You see then that a man is justified by works,
and not by faith only.
A person can believe all
day long, but until the have an obedient faith and obey the whole council of
God, they will not become a Christian. Next Jesus says,
Luke 13:3 "I
tell you, no; but unless you repent you will all likewise perish.
Repentance means that you
are willing to make a change in your life and you will stop living in sin and
you will live your life to the best of your ability according the whole council
of God. The Bible also teaches us that we must confess Jesus as our Lord.
Romans 10:10 For with the heart one believes unto
righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
Matthew 10:32 "
Therefore whoever confesses Me before men, him I will also confess before My
Father who is in heaven. 33
"But whoever denies Me before men, him I will also deny before My Father
who is in heaven.
A person cannot become a
Christians if they are ashamed to confess Jesus as there Lord. If you do not
have an obedient faith and confess Jesus as your Lord, then Jesus will not
confess you before the Father.
John 12:42
Nevertheless even among the rulers many believed in Him, but because of the
Pharisees they did not confess Him, lest they should be put out of the
synagogue; 43 for they loved
the praise of men more than the praise of God.
Notice these men believed
that Jesus was the son of God, but they would not confess Him. Again, this
example and these other verses show that a person must do more than just
believe in order to become a Christian. Everything I have showed you so far has
come from the Bible. It has not been my opinion or some preconceived idea that
I have been taught. Based on the verses I have given so far would cause
division in different denominations because they differ on how a person is
saved. However, if you have an honest heart, you should have no problem
understanding everything I have shown you is necessary to be saved.
Now our next step that
brings about salvation is denied by the majority of the denominations out
there. Again, I ask you to allow the Bible to speak for itself and don’t allow
the influence of a denomination or another person to keep you from seeing the
plain truth.
1 Peter 3:21 There is
also an antitype which now saves us – baptism …
Acts 2:38 Then
Peter said to them, "Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the
name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins
Acts 22:16 'And
now why are you waiting? Arise and be baptized, and wash away your sins,
calling on the name of the Lord.'
People can deny the
importance of baptism all day long, but it doesn’t change what the Word of God
says. Notice, baptism saves and its is the point that our sins are washed away.
According to
Romans 6:3 Or do
you not know that as many of us as were baptized into Christ Jesus were
baptized into His death?
Galatians 3:27 For as
many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ.
1 Corinthians 12:13 For by
one Spirit we were all baptized into one body
So using the whole
council of God we can see that person must hear the word, believe the Jesus is
the Son of God, repent, confess Jesus as Lord and be baptized into Christ for
the remission of their sins. It is only when we obey all of the things that we
become a Christians and this is just the first step in becoming prepared for
death and the blessings it brings. Once you become a Christian you must do your
best to faithful servant God.
Matthew 24:13 "But
he who endures to the end shall be saved
Revelation 2:10 … Be
faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life.
This does not mean that
we are going to be perfect because none of us are, but thanks to Jesus, we can
know that if we are striving to be faithful that we will be saved in the end.
The way that we show our love for God and our faithfulness is by obeying Gods
commands.
1 John 5:3 For this is the love of God, that we keep His
commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome.
The only way we can do
this is if we continue to study God’s word and pray for the strength and
guidance to be a doer of God’s Word. If we will follow these simply guidelines
given to us by the Word of God then we will be prepared for death and we can
look forward to it with anticipation. The most important thing we can do is to
make sure that we are spiritual prepared for our death, but there is another
aspect of death that we need to look at and that is how we should handle the
death of a loved one that is a Christian.
Obviously it will make us
mourn because that person will no longer be a part of our lives while we live
on the earth. Even when Jesus knew that He was going to raise Lazarus from the
dead, when He saw his family crying because of His death Jesus cried as well.
While there is a time for mourning, there will also be a time for rejoicing
because we can comfort ourselves knowing that they are now in place of comfort
and that we will get to see them again on the other side if we live a faithful
life as they did. King David understood this concept very well. Although his
approach was little bit different.
When David committed
adultery with Bathsheba and got her pregnant and then had her husband killed to
cover it up, God’s punishment was that the child would die. Well, David mourned
his child day and night before it died, hoping God might have mercy on him, but
his mourning did not change the outcome and once his child had died this was
his response,
2 Samuel 12:19 When
David saw that his servants were whispering, David perceived that the child was
dead. Therefore David said to his servants, "Is the child dead?" And
they said, "He is dead." 20
So David arose from the ground, washed and anointed himself, and changed his
clothes; and he went into the house of the LORD and worshiped. Then he went to
his own house; and when he requested, they set food before him, and he
ate. 21 Then his servants
said to him, "What is this that you have done? You fasted and wept
for the child while he was alive, but when the child died, you arose and
ate food." 22 And he
said, "While the child was alive, I fasted and wept; for I said, 'Who can
tell whether the LORD will be gracious to me, that the child may
live?' 23 "But now he is
dead; why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he
shall not return to me."
He understood that his
dead son was gone and there was nothing that was going to change that and so he
stopped his mourning and he comforted himself with the thought that he would
see his son on the other side and that is exactly what we must do. We need to
realize that our Christian loved one is enjoying the comfort of
Now there is an ugly side
to all of this and that is those who die outside of the Lord. I don’t have any
comforting words that I can share with you that will make their passing better.
All I can suggest is that we learn from their mistakes and don’t allow
ourselves to suffer their same fate. I can promise you they don’t want you to
be where they are. Remember the Rich man and what he said,
Luke 16:22 The rich man also died and was buried. 23 "And being in torments in
Hades, he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his
bosom. 24 "Then he cried
and said, 'Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus that he may dip
the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this
flame.' 25 "But Abraham
said, 'Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, and
likewise Lazarus evil things; but now he is comforted and you are
tormented. 26 'And besides
all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed, so that those who
want to pass from here to you cannot, nor can those from there pass to
us.' 27 "Then he said,
'I beg you therefore, father, that you would send him to my father's
house, 28 'for I have five
brothers, that he may testify to them, lest they also come to this place of
torment.'
The rich man realized
that he had a choice in the way he lived his life on the earth and that it was
to late for him, but he didn’t want his brothers to have to go to the horrible
place of torment. No one likes to think about their mom or dad or anyone that
you love being in this horrible place, but unfortunately is a reality for all
who have not become a Christian or lived faithful lives toward God. These loved
ones of ours don’t want us to suffer their fate and if they could speak to us
today, they would want us to live a righteous life and allow God’s Word to be
our guide. They wouldn’t want you to be deceived by false teaching on what it
takes to become a Christian.
I have shown in this
lesson how we should deal with death as Christians. We should not fear it, but
look forward to all the blessing that come with it. We also learned that when
someone does pass away we should mourn for them for a while, but then we should
also rejoice for them knowing that they have begun their journey of eternal
bliss. Then we looked at the dark side of death and how there is no hope for
those who die outside the Lord. The only thing they have to enjoy is their
short life here on the earth then they will begin their eternity of torment,
but it doesn’t have to be that way if you choose to make today your day of
salvation.
Your fate is your own
hands. If you are willing to take God’s word to heart by hearing it and
believing that Jesus is the son of God, repenting and confessing Jesus as your
Lord and being baptized into Christ for the remission of your sins then why not
do it today and began your journey as Christian so that you can look forward to
the blessing of death instead of the torments of hell. Don’t let something like
baptism keep you from being saved. Stop listening to what others are telling
you about salvation and listen to what the Word of God says. Don’t let the
praise of others override the plain truth of God’s Word. So, I urge you to
choose to live in Christ today because there are no guarantees of tomorrow and
if you already a Christians, but you are out of duty, I also urge you to start
being faithful to Lord staring today.